Which do you feel from your neighbors, hospitality or hostility?  Every man or woman has his or her merits as well as defects as you yourself have these two sides to deal with. You just look at the negative side and your dislike toward that person is great and sometimes unbearable.  Try to look at the other side at the same time.  

Like attracts like. Your positive attitude will produce the positive results.

As long as that person has  the other side of merits to you he is your example which you may be willing to follow. Respect that person simply for that reason and you will appear seemingly great to him, too. We have no time to lose in faul-finding. We should focus our time and energy to learn and learn to cultivate ourselves since making others happy makes us happy in return. Busy bees have no time to be distracted.